We stopped by H.B. Decker Road the
next day and our new lady friend is home. She invited us to sit at a table in
her side yard as she went into her house to retrieve the Decker Family
History book that she had located somewhere among her belongings.
It was obvious that she had done her
research, because she immediately pulled up the pertinent page, and there in
black and white was the documentation that proved that the mythical characters
known as the "Hillbillies" really did exist. I believe
that she was possibly as surprised as I was that Golden, Lyle and Stanley were
not a figment of my imagination.
Golden Emerson Decker was indeed the
oldest of the three boys, born 9-19-42. Next in birth order came “my
sweetheart”, Lyle Evan Decker born 11-4-43 and last but by no means least,
Stanley Duane Decker who was born 1-5-45. There were two siblings born before
Golden and several more siblings born after Stanley but since I never knew they
existed my eyes focused solely on the famous trio.
I was happy to see that all three
brothers had married and had children which left me with a happy feeling. It
seemed to point to the fact that their lives had turned out fulfilling in spite
of the fact that they had to live without those Foxy Ladies from New York City!
I was a bit surprised to see how young they were when they married. Lyle was
only 20 years old when his first child, Lyle, Jr was born.
Just about this time, I started to
reflect on the meaning of my search. Why did I have this need to find out what
happened to Golden, Lyle and Stanley Decker? I took the lead I had gotten from
the lovely lady of H.B. Decker Rd. and went to Facebook. I felt a bit like a
detective and I found it an interesting challenge. I happened to see a woman by
the name of Holly Decker on Facebook and even a guy named Golden Decker. I sent
the first couple of parts of my story entitled “The Decker Brothers” to both of
them in. Facebook message but heard nothing back. Then one evening several
weeks later I received a Facebook messenger response from Holly Decker telling
me that she thought my story was fascinating. I guess it is not surprising that
it would be interesting to her since she just happened to be Golden Decker’s
firstborn! I imagine it is fun to hear
stories about your beloved father from a long ago time when you were not yet
even a twinkle in his eye.
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