Friday, March 10, 2023

Linguine and Clam Sauce


I don’t typically post food picture but Linguini and Clam sauce brings back some very special high school memories that I just couldn’t help myself. 

The very first time I ever ate Linguine and Clam sauce was when I was invited to my classmate, Phyllis  Frogales’ house for dinner and she served it to me. Phyllis lived with her family in a home in Queens, not  very far from our high school, Our Lady of Wisdom Academy, Ozone Park. I felt so grown up sitting around her family’s old fashioned formal dining room table with a few of my closest High School friends.  I had never eaten anything like this before.  My Mom’s homemade Manhattan clam chowder or my Dad’s occasional shucked raw clams were the only things I ever knew you did with clams.   But when I tasted Phyllis’s piping hot bowl of Linguine and Clam sauce I was immediately hooked.  I was also very impressed with Phyllis’ culinary skills and wondered how one so young could create such a tasty meal.  All these decades later, I still have no idea if she labored over an elaborate recipe or simply opened a can of Progresso  Clam Sauce and boiled some pasta.  Whatever she did, I loved the results and became an immediate fan. Shortly afterwards, a group of us HS Juniors, went out for a celebratory dinner after receiving our senior rings in the OLWA chapel. We made reservations for this very special dinner event at Mama Leone’s, an iconic and very famous landmark restaurant in midtown Manhattan. A bunch of my HS friends and I were seated at an impressive, large round table elaborately decorated with a white tablecloth, fancy china dishes and sparkling silverware and glasses.  We were in the middle of the fanciest restaurant I had ever been in my life.  I can still feel the refreshing coolness of the air conditioning that surrounded my body, and off to one side I see the impressive wall filled with wine bottles floor to ceiling.   I also hear and feel the mist from the waterfall that was created right nearby our table in this elaborate Italian establishment. The waiters stood at attention and treated us like Queens; they were ready to fulfill all our requests even before we asked.  At 16 years of age, this was a totally new experience for me.  I knew nothing about fine dining.  I didn’t even know how to properly set a table without looking at the back pages of my Mom’s cookbook.   But, one thing I knew that day and people who know me well know that this is a big thing-a really big thing-I knew what I wanted to eat, I knew what I wanted to order. Without hesitation I told the fancy waiter, “I’ll have the Linguine with Clam sauce.”  And, I might add, it was delicious!


Wednesday, March 8, 2023

Turning 78!

 


Could that be me? Can I really be that old? 
Just yesterday I was bar hopping to find my Mr. Right and today I think about writing my obituary and planning my memorial services.  

Am I odd? I would say not; I’m just being realistic. 

We talk about sizing down but then again most days I barely have enough energy to do the basic tasks of living - showering, making the bed, preparing the dinner, washing the clothes, etc.  Aches and pains  travel around my body and interfere with a restful night of sleep. 

“I’m lucky” most would say and I believe it’s true but depression sits on the other side of the door, trying to enter. 

Try to live in the moment. 

Take pleasure in the little things. 

“I know, I know”, I answer these platitudes that make their way into my consciousness. 

This is a time of reflection. I remember the events of my life. What made me who I am today? I remember all the individuals who loved me over all these decades and I’m filled with gratitude. 

Did I make all the right decisions?

Did I take the right paths? Did I follow God’s will? Then again I wonder still and maybe more than ever-Who or What is this entity people refer to as God? Am I supposed to know for certain; am I supposed to be secure?  What will happen after I stop breathing? Some nights as I’m falling asleep I’m conscious of my heart - how has it beat so steadily over all these years. It amazes me when I think about its consistency. Even through the night while I’m sleeping, my heart keeps going - Wow, thanks heart ❤️

I sometimes wonder about other aspects of my body and I wonder why we have two arms, two legs and are made up in the way we are made up instead of in another configuration. 

No matter what I feel or fear or enjoy, it won’t stop the progression of time.   It just keeps moving on and in the end it seems to me that the only thing that ever really mattered or matters still is Love ❤️.